Communicating Crystal Clear
<![CDATA[It has been a little over a week now since we adopted our new dachshund. It has been a lot of fun to get to know this little guy. And I've got to tell you, getting a new dog has reminded me what good communicators dogs can be. We were reminded how not subtle dogs are the first night with our new boy. Not really knowing how potty trained our fella was, we set in him up in a crate next to our bed. He of course started whining. We tried to wait it out for a while assuming he would stop. About a half an hour of pitiful crying later, we put him in the baby gated closet where our other dog sleeps. Little dog promptly pawed the baby gate until he pushed it over enough that he could break free. He then make a flying leap up onto our bed (no small task for this short legged fella). After a moment of nudging and wallowing his way in between our chests, he finally let out a big sigh and went to sleep. He was so intent and clear about what he wanted, I couldn’t help but grant his request (demand?) to sleep with us. There are so many ways that our little guy makes his wants and needs known to us. Not only does he sit by his bowl when we haven’t remembered to feed him and go to the door when he needs to be let out, but he also rolls onto his back for a belly rub when we come into the room and then lays his head back so we don’t forget to scratch his chin.
Part of me can’t believe we have such a spoiled dog after only living with him for only a week’s time, but a larger part of me is impressed that he trusts us and himself enough to make his needs and wishes known so well.
4 thoughts on “Communicating Crystal Clear”
I have a cat. He was a stray in need of food. Graudally he became tame. When he first came he would run when I cracked open the door, now he won’t eat unless I give him some good loving. So he needed not only food but love too. I didn’t give him a name just called him Kitty because I did not know if he would stay but we are now coming up on our second anniversary : ) Amazingly I once had a cat – Friskie who lived 12 years and died. 10 years later this little fellow shows up with the exact markings as Friskie. I consider that he may well be Friskie’s great, great, great… grandson.
Please change Graudally to Gradually – my poor fingers cannot spell as well as my brain.
How wise is an animal….he knows exactly what he needs and WHEN he needs it. After a miserable day that ends with me being grumpy and snappy, I might later be wise enough to realize, through ‘forced’ mindfulness, that there was something that really triggered that miserable day that needs rethinking and readjusting in my head so that I can move beyond it. Or a pounding headache and that reminds me that I haven’t eaten yet on a particular day. Or a lonely moment that a good hug…or chin scratching…might help. I’m happy to hear that CJ is settling in nicely, Dena!
Love your thoughts. God uses so many ways to communicate with us and I need to try to focus more on what he says through my dog. Sometimes she has such a need to be held and she tries so hard to get my attention…then I realize that God wants my attention too, and is patient and waiting for me to notice Him, to remember to go to Him. To feed Him with my prayers and worship…..you make me think, Dena.